Tag Archives: male suicide

90000 #male #suicide per year. Sadly #daughters are #joining. Horror from Pune !

Father-daughter found in flat, days after suicide pact

Police find decomposing bodies after neighbours complain of foul odour emanating from apartment\
“….“Patil (deceased) has mentioned about the frustration that he was going through due to the disputes between him and his wife. His wife had filed a case of domestic violence against him. We are now analysing further details mentioned in the suicide note,” Govekar added….”
Panic spread in Pisoli near Kondhwa when some residents called the cops about foul odour emanating from a flat. Police found decomposed bodies of a man and his daughter at the flat. The man, a PhD holder, had left a suicide note that mentions a family dispute as the reason he was forced to take the extreme step.

The deceased, identified as Dr Kiran Devendra Patil (65) and his daughter Niyata Kiran Patil (17), lived by themselves in the apartment. Due to a family dispute, Kiran’s wife had not been living with them. The father-daughter had been residing on the first floor of the Kingston Elysia residential complex. According to police, Patil was working as a software consultant and Niyata was pursuing her studies through distant learning and recently shifted to the society.

Neighbours contacted the police around 11am, complaining about the foul smell coming from the apartment. One of the neighbours, who did not wish to be named, told Pune Mirror, “There was a bad smell for the past couple of days that a lot of people in the society complained about. However, it was not that strong and we did not suspect that it was coming from the locked flat. On Thursday morning, the odour became so strong that we could easily locate its source from the flat and were forced to approach the cops.”

Senior inspector Satish Govekar of Kondhwa police station, who visited the spot, told Pune Mirror, “When we opened the door, we found bodies of the father-daughter duo in a sitting position on two different chairs. Both the bodies were in a decomposed state, which is the reason the foul smell had spread all over the society. Looking at the condition of the bodies we suspect that the two people might have committed suicide five to six days back.”

According to nearby residents, the father and daughter didn’t interactive much with other people. One of the residents of the complex said, “They had shifted to the place recently and therefore they hadn’t communicated with other residents that much. Since they were not keeping in touch with the neighbours, nobody even noticed that they had not been seen for the past few days.”

When police carried out a thorough search of the house, they found an almost eight to ten pages long suicide note. “Patil has mentioned about the frustration that he was going through due to the disputes between him and his wife. His wife had filed a case of domestic violence against him. We are now analysing further details mentioned in the suicide note,” Govekar added.

Cops said that the Patil family originally hails from Thane. “The father and daughter were earlier staying in Thane and had shifted to Pune about eight to nine months back. Patil’s wife had not been living with them since 2007. We have now managed to establish contact with their relatives in Mumbai who will be coming to Pune. Once they are here, we will be able to get more details about the deceased.” Meanwhile police have sent both the bodies for postmortem to ascertain the cause of death.

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Harassed by wife and in-laws, man ends life. NO arrest though !! Pune Mirror !

His wife allegedly did not allow him to meet their son and filed a case of domestic violence; activists say Act needs to be made gender-neutral

The man hung himself at his residence in Pimpri on Friday, March 31. The deceased has been identified as Apoorvajeet Mitra, a resident of Vinayak Residency in Vallabh Nagar.

 

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Suicide #s ‘..doubled or tripled in women and of these most of them are due to treatment by their husbands and their families..’

When asked about 67,000 male suicides,  Hon Mantri Smt Maneka Gandhi Ji, had the following to say ...There are so many reasons but depressions due to economic reasons is primary in male suicide. This number is doubled or tripled in women – and of these most of them are due to treatment by their husbands and their families . This number is doubled or tripled in women – and of these most of them are due to treatment by their husbands and their families.  And how many of them are ” suicides” is a moot point …” .

She went on to add ” I suggest you do not distort facts to achieve your point. It is sad enough even when one man or woman commits suicide. …”

So, according to the Hon Mantri ji, women commit double or triple the # of suicides as males or probably she meant that the # of suicides has doubled or tripled recently and the main reason for such female suicides is due to (ill ? ) treatment by their husbands and their families.

…..hmm the men claim and married male suicides are 2 times that of females; The Hon Mantri ji says female suicides are 3 times males

I’m all confused about facts ..facts …facts… !!!

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the Original Q & A may be located on the following link in FB http://bit.ly/1UhnEoR

A more detailed screen shot with additional comments is give below

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why NO suicide ??

One guy asked me why I never contemplated suicide in spite of all the fake case shit.

Before he could praise me too much, I told him ‘…That was VERY simple….’

(A) As long as I was married, suicide meant wife takes all Insurance etc, gets public sympathy and marries next bakra. That looked like a terrible terrible deal. And

(B) once divorced, without all the shit, life seemed SO beautiful, suicide didn’t even cross my mind !!!

 

 

Why LIFETIME alimony in india ??

In most parts of the civilised world alimony is time bound. In those truly equal countries It does NOT OPEN for women to claim alimony by sitting idle at home for ever and ever. They have to get out and work, they have to get out and learn things themselves . However lifetime alimony is the norm in India !! YES I repeat it is the NORM. Once married, the wife need NOT seek employment or education, she can sit back and expect the husband to provide everything for her

Many people fighting usurious alimony and maintenance cases in India have been quite un successful. The biggest problem in India is that the “system” and commission agents benefit if and only if men pay maintenance and / or alimony.... The “system” and middle men do not benefit if Indian women are made really independent, if Indian women are made really equal and capable of earning for themselves ….

So the loot in the name of LIFETIME alimony and lifetime maintenance goes on in spite of thousands of suicides by married man …. Approx 80000 every year

PS :  Since we face these questions day in and day our, we have blogged many cases where alimony is denied. Here is a link to the same  : 30 cases of maintenance denied or lowered

#alimony #lifetimeAlimony #Maintenance #MaleSuicides #thoudandsDead #MarriageIsGamble