Daily Archives: June 7, 2013

Chastity thru plastic surgery: “..routinely consulted by girls, coming with boyfriends, to get hymen reconstruct ed before wedding!..”; பத்தினி பெண்போல இருக்கணுமா ? plastic surgeon இ டம் செல்லவும் !!

Like a virgin, touched for very second time

Radha Sharma, TNN | Jun 6, 2013, 01.18 AM IST

AHMEDABAD: A plastic surgeon was in for a surprise recently — a boy and his girlfriend came to consult him for hymenoplasty, a procedure in which the hymen is reconstructed in women.

The boyfriend told the doctor that they were in love and had engaged in premarital sex for over a year. However, since the two belonged to different cultures, their parents were not in favour of their marriage and hence they had no choice but to part ways and get married to different people.

"The boy wanted me to restore the hymen so that the husband believes that the girl is a virgin on the wedding night," said Dr Hemant Saraiya, a plastic surgeon. "He said that he supported her as he did not want her to be in trouble for the hymen not breaking. This was the first case of a boyfriend accompanying his girlfriend for hymen reconstruction which indicated that the society is changing."

Saraiya said that he is routinely consulted by girls, coming along with their friends, to get hymen reconstructed before their wedding.

"Premarital sex is very common these days and while there are men who do not insist on their wives being virgins, there are many belonging to conservative families who insist on this ‘virtue’," he said.

"Many girls who have had physical relations with various boyfriends get hymen reconstructed before marriage. While most girls come with their friends, one girl was accompanied by her mother."

In hymenoplasty, a mesh of tissues taken from inside the vagina walls is constructed into a hymen which, like the original structure, can break.

Dr Aashit Shah, another plastic surgeon, said that hymenoplasty was becoming a popular method to restore virginity in girls who have had premarital sex and were getting married to men other than their lovers.

source
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/Like-a-virgin-touched-for-very-second-time/articleshow/20451039.cms?intenttarget=no

IF I too want to go leaving my wife WILL court leave me from marriage?? lover girl ditches boy and COURT supports it !! this is after their love story created caste tensions, lead to violence, they were given police protection etc etc … men lost lives for them and now the young girl cooly say “I want to go with mom..” ..FINE then use the same rule for ALL MEN who want to go with their dads , leave them free without questions

Notes

  • This is a real story unfolding before our eyes
  • Love marriage ;
  • OBC girl married dalit boy in Tamil Nadu ;
  • They apprehended threats to life and safety ;
  • Police protection was given ;
  • Girl’s father committed suicide;
  • ALL THIS Lead to caste disputes 9 months ago in TN ;
  • Later (after marriage, living with boy, after some months of huge hungama) Girl was taken back / returned back to parental home ;
  • Girl’s mother filed a kidnapping case !!;
  • What did court do ?? Court called the girl "asked" her, "where do you want to live.." ;
  • Girl now said she "….wishes to go with MOTHER !!!..", and she is let off by the court !!
  • my question : I too want to go with my father, leaving my wife !! will they leave me from my marriage ???
  • why is the girl going away now after riots and all nonsense ??
  • IF this female will just run away, why give protection to all the "run away" brides ??

News from Times News below

For mom, Vanniyar woman ‘sacrifices’ marriage to dalit

Karthick S TNN

Chennai: Divya Nagarajan could barely stand in the Madras high court on Thursday. The pressures of a seven-month ordeal that included a daring elopement, an inter-caste marriage and caste violence with strong political overtones in Dharmapuri district sat heavily on her young shoulders.

When 22-year-old Divya, who belongs to the vanniyar community, married a dalit youth, all hell broke loose. Her father Nagarajan committed suicide, prompting community members to go on the rampage in the dalit settlement in Natham colony in Dharmapuri district in November last year.

“My husband and I are under huge pressure. I have decided to sacrifice my love, my marriage for the sake of a society that is caste-obsessed, and for the sake of my mother,” Divya told TOI.

Divya said she was under tremendous pressure to leave her husband, and that she was in a disturbed state of mind. Her mother and other relatives accompanied the young woman, who appeared too weak to even stand on her own.

There was high drama in the high court when, in an unexpected turn of events, Divya, who stubbornly refused to leave her dalit husband all through the turmoil that rocked Dharmapuri district, appeared on Thursday in response to a habeas corpus plea filed by her mother Thenmozhi last year.

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N Divya (centre) leaving the Madras HC on Thursday

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http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&Source=Page&Skin=TOINEW&BaseHref=TOICH%2F2013%2F06%2F07&PageLabel=3&EntityId=Ar00303&ViewMode=HTML

this killer was brought up by just his mother; SEND A COPY TO ALL FAMILY COURT JUDGES who give custody ONLY to mothers

"……After Breivik’s father Jens Breivik lost a child custody case with Ms Behring, social workers recommended that the boy nonetheless be removed from his mother to prevent "more severe psychopathology" from developing, a request that was ignored. ……"
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AMEN !!!

Anders Behring Breivik’s mother ‘sexualised’ him when he was four

Norway killer Anders Behring Breivik’s mother "sexualised" her four-year-old son, smacked him, and often told him she wished he were dead, child psychologist reports printed in a new book on the Norwegian killer have revealed.

Norway killer Anders Behring Breivik's mother Anders Behring Breivik Photo: Reuters

By Richard Orange in Malmo

4:07PM BST 07 Oct 2012

The reports also show that when Breivik was just four-years-old, his mother became preoccupied with fears that her son would violently assault someone.

"She saw him as an adult violent person, even though he was only a small boy," said Aage Borchgrevink, author of A Norwegian tragedy. "She was afraid that he would assault people."

The psychologist reports show that Wenche Behring already felt her son was "aggressive, hyperactive and clingy," when she was breastfeeding him.

By the time he was four years old, she "sexualised" the young Breivik, hit him, and frequently told him that she wished that he were dead.

"The mother and Anders sleep in the same bed at night with very close bodily contact," psychologists from Norway’s centre for child and youth psychiatry (SSBU), reported after Breivik and his mother spent several weeks there in 1983.

The family’s neighbours at the time became worried about her inappropriate sexual behaviour.

"During the police investigation, the neighbours also said that they had been shocked by the mother’s sexualised language," Borchgrevink writes. "There was a lot of fighting in the apartment and they remembered sexual activity taking place while the children were in there."

The SSBU report described Ms Behring as "a woman with an extremely difficult upbringing, borderline personality structure and an all-encompassing if only partially visible depression" who "projects her primitive aggressive and sexual fantasies onto him [Breivik]".

The psychologists reported that she would frequently tell her son that she wished he would die.

"She shifts very quickly between speaking to him with a sugary voice and openly expressing a death wish," they wrote.

When she smacked him in an attempt to exert control, the four-year-old would taunt her that the blows did not hurt, smiling in a way she found "condescending, inappropriate and derisive".

Borchgrevink, a novelist, has faced criticism in Norway for his decision to publish excerpts from the reports, with some accusing him of violating the privacy of Ms Behring, who was admitted to a psychiatric ward the day after her son killed 77 people in his bomb and gun rampage in July 2011.

Ms Behring was excused from testifying in the trial this summer on health grounds, and refused to give permission for the psychologist who examined the family in 1983 and 1984 to give evidence, preventing the information published last week from being heard in court.

After Breivik’s father Jens Breivik lost a child custody case with Ms Behring, social workers recommended that the boy nonetheless be removed from his mother to prevent "more severe psychopathology" from developing, a request that was ignored.

Borchgrevink said it was this that had convinced him that he was right to publish.

"I’ve given more weight to the public interest. The fact is that he was actually caught by the system before the action, not by the security police, but in his childhood. He was within the system, but the system let him go."

Breivik was sentenced to 21 years in jail for his attack in August, which he claimed was "necessary" to alert Norway to the threat posed by Islamic immigration.

SOURCE

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/norway/9592433/Anders-Behring-Breiviks-mother-sexualised-him-when-he-was-four.html?fb

அம்மாப்பையன் ஜாக்கிரதை !! தந்தையால் குழந் தகளை வளர்க முடியாது என்று சொல்லும் நீதிபதிக ளின் **மேலான** பார்வைக்கு

தந்தைக்கு குழந்தையின் custody குடுக்க முடியாது, அம்மா தான் குழந்தையை நன்றாக வளர்பாள் என்றெல்லாம் சொல்லி தந்தயாரிடம் குழந்தையை கொடுப்பதே இல்லை !!! ஆனால் தாயார் மட்டுமே வளர்க்கும் பையன் எப்படியெல்லாம் விபரீதமாய் வளர்வான் , ஒரு தேசத்துக்கே கேடு விளைவிப்பான் என்று இந்த செய்தியில் இருந்து புலனாகிறது
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After Breivik’s father Jens Breivik lost a child custody case with Ms Behring, social workers recommended that the boy nonetheless be removed from his mother to prevent "more severe psychopathology" from developing, a request that was ignored.
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"….The mother and Anders sleep in the same bed at night with very close bodily contact," psychologists from Norway’s centre for child and youth psychiatry (SSBU), reported after Breivik and his mother spent several weeks there in 1983.
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இந்த ஆண்டஸ் தான் நார்வேயில் பல அப்பாவிகளை சுட்டுத்தளியவன் …நார்வே நாட்டையே கலக்கியவன் , இப்போது ஆயுள் தண்டனை கைதி
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இந்த பையன் முலைப்பால் குடிக்கும் போதே இவன் சரியில்லை என்று இவங்க அம்மா நினைச்சாங்களாம் !! "aggressive, hyperactive and clingy," when she was breastfeeding him.
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இவனோட அம்மா கடைசீயில … இப்ப பைத்தியக்கார ஆஸ்பத்திரியில் இருக்காங்களாம் !!!
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Anders Behring Breivik’s mother ‘sexualised’ him when he was four

Norway killer Anders Behring Breivik’s mother "sexualised" her four-year-old son, smacked him, and often told him she wished he were dead, child psychologist reports printed in a new book on the Norwegian killer have revealed.

By Richard Orange in Malmo

4:07PM BST 07 Oct 2012

The reports also show that when Breivik was just four-years-old, his mother became preoccupied with fears that her son would violently assault someone.

"She saw him as an adult violent person, even though he was only a small boy," said Aage Borchgrevink, author of A Norwegian tragedy. "She was afraid that he would assault people."

The psychologist reports show that Wenche Behring already felt her son was "aggressive, hyperactive and clingy," when she was breastfeeding him.

By the time he was four years old, she "sexualised" the young Breivik, hit him, and frequently told him that she wished that he were dead.

"The mother and Anders sleep in the same bed at night with very close bodily contact," psychologists from Norway’s centre for child and youth psychiatry (SSBU), reported after Breivik and his mother spent several weeks there in 1983.

The family’s neighbours at the time became worried about her inappropriate sexual behaviour.

"During the police investigation, the neighbours also said that they had been shocked by the mother’s sexualised language," Borchgrevink writes. "There was a lot of fighting in the apartment and they remembered sexual activity taking place while the children were in there."

The SSBU report described Ms Behring as "a woman with an extremely difficult upbringing, borderline personality structure and an all-encompassing if only partially visible depression" who "projects her primitive aggressive and sexual fantasies onto him [Breivik]".

The psychologists reported that she would frequently tell her son that she wished he would die.

"She shifts very quickly between speaking to him with a sugary voice and openly expressing a death wish," they wrote.

When she smacked him in an attempt to exert control, the four-year-old would taunt her that the blows did not hurt, smiling in a way she found "condescending, inappropriate and derisive".

Borchgrevink, a novelist, has faced criticism in Norway for his decision to publish excerpts from the reports, with some accusing him of violating the privacy of Ms Behring, who was admitted to a psychiatric ward the day after her son killed 77 people in his bomb and gun rampage in July 2011.

Ms Behring was excused from testifying in the trial this summer on health grounds, and refused to give permission for the psychologist who examined the family in 1983 and 1984 to give evidence, preventing the information published last week from being heard in court.

After Breivik’s father Jens Breivik lost a child custody case with Ms Behring, social workers recommended that the boy nonetheless be removed from his mother to prevent "more severe psychopathology" from developing, a request that was ignored.

Borchgrevink said it was this that had convinced him that he was right to publish.

"I’ve given more weight to the public interest. The fact is that he was actually caught by the system before the action, not by the security police, but in his childhood. He was within the system, but the system let him go."

Breivik was sentenced to 21 years in jail for his attack in August, which he claimed was "necessary" to alert Norway to the threat posed by Islamic immigration.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/norway/9592433/Anders-Behring-Breiviks-mother-sexualised-him-when-he-was-four.html?fb